Why Cats Choose to Sleep Between Your Legs

Even if you've never owned a cat in your life, you're surely familiar with their general habits just by observing them. They are way more suspicious and guarded than dogs, especially around strangers. It takes a while to gain their trust, and even then, they're prone to acting aloof from time to time. Therefore, the sight of a tabby snuggled comfortably between their owner's legs may catch some people by surprise.

Of course, not all felines are the same: different breeds exhibit different behaviors. For instance, the Abyssinian is as warm and outgoing as cats can be, showering you with love and affection. On the other hand, the Siamese is the total opposite – mischievous, territorial, and often jealous of other pets to the point of aggression.

Despite these differences, you'll often find both dozing off in their owner's lap when they feel like it. No matter the breed, a cat sleeping this way means they are wholly attached to their human, and it's quite a spectacle that can melt the iciest heart. This article will attempt to explore the reasons for this particular cat's behavior.

 

 

An Opportunity for Bonding

As we said, we all picture cats as somewhat distant and self-sufficient, and rightfully so. It's not uncommon for your pet to move around for hours without paying you the slightest bit of attention. This is not because they lack love; it's just how they are. Much like their larger, wild cousins, tigers, lions, and others, they possess this natural dignity and grandeur that is quite admirable.

Nonetheless, cats want to establish a bond with their owner and feel secure at all times. And what better way to achieve that than through direct physical contact? Not just physical, but emotional, too.

Cats feel things just like us, and if you provide them with a sense of ease, they will certainly feel closer and more attached to you. Once they feel comfortable enough to nest between your legs and go to dreamland, there's a bond that's hard to break.

Just take a look at the Ragdoll, another gorgeous breed: it loves playing fetch if you train it well, and being loyal and openly friendly, it even follows you around the house! And when it finally settles in your lap and starts purring softly, what more can you really ask for from a pet?

The Importance of Comfort

Yes, even when they look wholly satisfied by themselves, cats seek warmth and comfort from you. Next time you pet your feline gently on the back, take a look at that contented face with closed eyes, fully savoring the moment. When they find themselves outside, for example, cats easily feel danger and fear; it's unknown territory, after all. They're already wary by nature, and strangers can only amplify this feeling.

Once they sense they're protected by their master, this unease goes away completely. They know and appreciate human care even if it doesn't look that way. If you try to pet a furball in the street, nine times out of ten, you will get the cold shoulder. This is because they don't feel comfortable with you – yet. But spend a few minutes with them, maybe offer them some food, and they will sense your good nature and get closer to you.

And napping between your legs is the pinnacle of their comfort. It means they're so relaxed in your presence that they're ready to fall completely under your control.

The Social Factor

Have you ever noticed how outdoor cats often form groups to search for food? Though rather solitary by nature, they are still social creatures that seek company. It can never really match the faithful camaraderie of a dog, which always acts like they haven't seen you in years, but it certainly longs for closeness.

There's always that moment when it has had enough and needs to roam again, but until then, it's good to let them bathe in your affection. Even if a sudden noise or movement disturbs them while drowsing, light petting will provide quick reassurance and comfort and they'll keep feeling safe.

Marking their Territory

This is another important trait in cats that is often overlooked. As much as they love their personal space, they need to know that their owner is always there for them. We already know how they mark territory by urinating or leaving their scent on objects, thanks to the glands in their paws and cheeks. Well, taking a nap between your legs is yet another way of doing that.

If you have more than one pet in your household, this is a real power move for your kitty. It basically means – this is my zone now, and do not dare approach. Of course, it's not as aggressive as it sounds, but cats like setting boundaries to an extent. It allows them to enjoy your undivided attention and grow even more attached to you.

When it Gets Too Much

Of course, as much as you love your cat unconditionally, sometimes you need your own space, too. Keeping a sleeping cat in your lap forces you to stay still. As a result, you can easily get cramped up and frustrated. This shouldn't bother you if it occurs now and again, but if it's habitual, it may pose a slight problem.

One proven way of solving this is finding an alternative sleeping spot. This may take some time, especially if it's an older cat, but it is doable.

Some cat owners feel that this would alienate their felines, but it's only a question of habit, nothing else. Just like with eating or potty training, your pet learns a certain routine and sticks to it.

Possible Solutions

The first obvious alternative is a cat bed. Chances are you're already using one; if so, there's no new habit to learn. But if you're introducing the bed for the first time, it helps to stick around for a while and caress your feline as it gradually gets used to it. This way, it won't feel like you're pushing it away.

If your cat is using your legs to get warm, it's a clever idea to buy a heated pad. Have you noticed how these pets love stretching on sunny windowsills? It's because they love the warmth. Well, they will grow to love the heated pad, too. It might still hop occasionally in your lap for a quick nap, but that's hard to resist, anyway.